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THE BERNARDS-RIDGE CONNECTION PAGE 4 FEBRUARY/MARCH 2026 theconnectionsnj.com f you are ready to file for divorce in New Jersey and need the assistance of an experienced family law firm, Cadicina Law is here to represent you and ensure you understand your rights to equitable distribution. Inmakinganequitabledistributionof property, the Court shall consider, but not be limited to, the following factors: • thedurationofthemarriageorcivilunion • the age and physical and emotional health of the parties • the income or property brought to the marriage or civil union by each party • the standard of living established during the marriage or civil union • any written agreement made by the parties before or during the marriage or civil union concerning an arrangement of property distribution • the economic circumstances of each party at the time the division of property becomes effective • the income and earning capacity of each party, including educational background, training, employment skills, work experience, length of absence from the job market, custodial responsibilities for the children, and the time and expense necessary to acquire sufficient education or training to enable the party to become self-supporting at a standard of living reasonably comparable to that enjoyed during the marriage or civil union • the contribution by each party to the education, training or earning power of the other • the contribution of each party to the acquisition, dissipation, preservation, depreciation or appreciation in the amount or value of the marital property, or the property acquired during the civil union as well as the contribution of a party as a homemaker • the tax consequences of the proposed distribution to each party • thepresentvalueoftheproperty • the need of a parent who has physical custody of a child to own or occupy the marital residence or residence shared by the partners in a civil union couple and to use or own the household effects • the debts and liabilities of the parties • the need for creation, now or in the future, of a trust fund to secure reasonably foreseeable medical or education costs for a spouse, partner in a civil union couple or children • the extent to which a party deferred achieving their career goals • any other factors which the court may deem relevant Ineverycase,exceptcaseswherethe court does not make an award concerning equitable distribution of property pursuant to subsection h. of N.J. S. 2A:34-23, the court shall make specific findings of fact on the evidence relevant to all issues pertaining to asset eligibility or ineligibility, asset valuation, and equitable distribution, including specifically, but not limited to, the factors set forth in this section. It shall be a rebuttable presumption that each party made a substantial financial or non-financial contribution to the acquisition of income and property while the party was married. Joseph Cadicina has been licensed to practice law for over 27 years and has exclusively practiced divorce and family law. Mr.CadicinaservedastheMorris County Bar Association and Foundation President and was recognized with the FamilyLawAwardin2024. Heserves on the Family Law Executive Committee of the New Jersey State Bar AssociationFamilyLawSection. Mr.Cadicina has been consistently included in Super Lawyers Top 100, Best Lawyer, NJ Family Magazine and Top Morris Lawyers by Morris/Essex Magazine. How Equitable Distribution is Determined in NJ Divorce Cases By Joseph Cadicina I f FAMILYLAW Cadicina Law, LLC primarily practices in the area of divorce, family law, domestic violence, prenuptial/post-nuptial agreements and related matters dealing with alimony, custody, child support, and equitable distribution along with dissolution of domestic partnerships, civil unions and same sex divorces. The firm has developed an excellent reputation in family law, has been recognized in various publications, our attorneys serve on various family law committees and lecture for County and State Bar Associations. Cadicina Law, LLC continues to serve clients in Morris, Somerset and the surrounding Northern New Jersey counties. The firm also performs complex family law mediations and arbitrations for private clients and court appointed assignments. Please visit our website and social media sites to obtain more information about the firm and members. MATRIMONIAL & FAMILY LAW Cadicina Law, LLC TEL: 973-270-9166 FAX: 973-843-6072 cadicinalaw.com Pasqua S. Cadicina, Thomas R. McConnell, Joseph P. Cadicina, Mauro D. Altamura, Carly DiFrancisco 36 Cattano Ave., 6th Floor, Morristown, New Jersey 07960 Office Location: www.OurPIaceServiceCenter.com Our Place Service Center 908.432.4065 26 McCann Mill Road, Pottersville, NJ 07979
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THE BERNARDS-RIDGE CONNECTION PAGE 6 FEBRUARY/MARCH 2026 4 Family Law: Cadicina Law, LLC 7 Financial Forum: Shapiro CPAs 8 Commends: Ace Aesthetics 11 Family Adventures: Joanne Kleinle 12 Lawyer’s View: Fox Rothschild 14-23 SHOPPING, DINING, BEAUTY & EVENTS 14 Valentine’s Day Gift Inspirations 16 Connection Community Champions: NJ Ballroom Dancers 17 Fashion Flash: Adams Fine Clothing & Tuxedo 19 Commends: Couture Traders 20 Creative Corner: Carolyn Hanson 23 Slice of Life: Ellyn Mantell 24-26 SENIOR LIVING 24 Community News: Heath Village 24 Senior Corner: Ellyn Mantell 31-39 HOME & DESIGN 32 Hints for the Home: Fair Street Interiors 37 Commends: Pheasant Lane Designs 41-42 KIDZ CONNECTION 41 Shelf Awareness: Sonia Prabhakar & Isabella Santos 42 Teen Voice: Siya Gokhale 43-51 HEALTH & WELLNESS 44 Health Hotline: NMR 46 Campers & Caviar: Serafina Perrotto 47 Health Hotline: Ellie Mental Health 48 Food for Thought: Lori Kolodin 50 Mind the Mind: Dr. Michael Osit 51 Health Hotline: Balance & Flow 52-53 COMMUNITY CALENDAR Olga Muzician Title of Artwork: In Bloom Medium: latex paint on wood Olga Muzician is a Ukrainian-born, New Jersey–based letterer, designer, and muralist known for her bold use of color and expressive hand lettering. Her lifelong artistic journey began at age six in her painter-godfather’s studio, where she developed a foundation in fine arts and oil painting before later studying communications design in college and graduate school at Pratt Institute. Before launching her full-time studio, Olga built an eight-year career as an Art Director in the international division of a major New York City magazine publishing house. Today, through Olga Muzician Studio, she creates vibrant digital lettering, large-scale murals, and illustration work for clients around the world. Her portfolio includes collaborations with brands such as Coca-Cola, Crayola, Snapchat, Trader Joe’s, Chili’s, Papyrus, Tillamook, Dolce & Gabbana, Winsor & Newton, Salvatore Ferragamo, Harper’s Bazaar, and Arteza. Olga’s work is driven by a mission to bring positivity, color, and uplifting messages into public and commercial spaces. Nature is one of her deepest inspirations, often reflected in her botanical motifs and organic design elements. Her recent focus on murals has led to collaborations with New Jersey townships and numerous private clients, transforming communities and environments through vibrant, immersive art. THE CONNECTION MAGAZINE'S TEAM PUBLISHED BY Georgeann Agaisse, Heather Silver, Alicia Singman, Jeanette Vogel, Pramisa Timsina The Connection Magazine P.O. Box 4081, Warren, NJ 07059 908-903-1799 | info@theconnectionsnj.com Somewhere in this magazine is aFAKE AD. Spot it and send your answer, along with your name, city or town and phone number to: spotthefake@theconnectionsnj.com or play online at theconnectionsnj.com. The WINNER of the Sno' Problem Plumbing in the November issue is Scott Hornyak of Basking Ridge. Scott won a gift certificate to the Gladstone Tavern in Gladstone. Next Issue April! Advertising deadline March 11, 2026 SPOT THE FAKE! Disclaimer: The views expressed in the articles are the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of The Connection Magazines. We publish all advertisements, editorials and other content in good faith. We cannot guarantee or accept liability for the accuracy of the claims made by the advertisers. ON OUR COVER Highlights... Happy New Year—and hello to a fresh start! Welcome to the Bernards-Ridge edition of our February issue. As we say goodbye to last year, we welcome a new year filled with opportunity, good health, and meaningful connections. February is a time to reflect on what truly matters -community, relationships, and supporting the local businesses that make our neighborhoods thrive. At The Connection Magazine, our mission has always been to keep small businesses at the forefront. When you shop locally, you’re not just making a purchase, you’re investing in personalized service, unique finds, and one-of-a-kind experiences you simply won’t find online or in big-box stores. From thoughtful gifts to exceptional service, local businesses o er something truly special. Visit them for all things local, and please be sure to tell them we sent you. This issue, we’re celebrating Valentine’s Day with a specially curated guide filled with local treasures for food, fashion, and fun. Our Valentine’s Guide showcases businesses across all three Connection editions, The Warren–Watchung, Bernards–Ridge, and Bridgewater– Somerville Editions, giving you endless inspiration for celebrating the people you love. Whether you’re searching for a memorable dining experience, a unique gift, or something beautifully unexpected, you’ll find it right here. This issue is also packed with inspiration to start the year strong. Explore our Health & Wellness section to discover trusted local providers dedicated to keeping your body and mind healthy. Turn to our Home section for ideas along with experts ready to help with projects you’ve been meaning to tackle. Whether it’s remodeling, decorating, or buying/selling your home you will find them here. Be sure to check our Community Calendar, available both in print and online, highlighting activities and events for children and adults alike. There’s always something happening close to home. The vibrant painting on our cover was inspired by Olga Muzician’s love of nature and the sense of calm she finds in exploring natural landscapes. This piece exudes hope that spring is just around the corner! It is appropriately titled, In Bloom and is painted on wood with latex paint. Looking for something di erent to do? Love music and theater? Support your local high school’s rising drama stars by attending the upcoming musicals slated for March. Please read Joanne Kleinle’s Family Adventures column to find out more about two amazing productions that Watchung Hills Regional High School and Basking Ridge High School are o ering this winter. For those of you who have made “well-being” resolutions, consider Tai Chi. Our Health Hotline column describes how this ancient Chinese martial art can cultivate balance and stress reduction and enhance overall mind, body and spirit. Try a class at Balance & Flow in Gladstone and conquer those health resolutions! We’re also excited to share that The Connection Magazine is now on TikTok! Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok for all things local and get a bird’s-eye view of restaurants and shops to visit. Our featured businesses appear both in print and online. Visit us digitally at theconnectionsnj.com. Thank you for supporting local, supporting community, and supporting The Connection Magazine. Here’s to a year of growth, connection, and community spirit. Warmly, Anna Petro Publisher, The Connection Magazine A Note From Our Publisher... CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Gail Bicknell, Joseph Cadicina, Steve Drzewoszewski, Siya Gokhale, Carolyn Hanson, Joanne Kleinle, Lori Kolodin, Jessica Diamond Lia, Ellyn Mantell, David J. Marzano, Dr. Michael Osit, Serafina Perrotto, Sonia Prabhakar, Elizabeth Ru alo, Isabella Santos, Dr. Vince Sferra, Robert Shapiro, Eric S. Soloto , Chris Wilson
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THE BERNARDS-RIDGE CONNECTION PAGE 8 FEBRUARY/MARCH 2026 theconnectionsnj.com ce Aesthetics, owned and operated by Paula Shuster in Warren, New Jersey, has quickly become a premier destination for those seeking natural, beautiful, and long-lasting aesthetic results. With over 14 years as a nurse and more than 8 years as an aesthetics nurse practitioner in NYC, Paula brings unmatched expertise, precision, and artistry to every treatment she performs. Her philosophy is simple yet powerful: it’s not just about looking goodit’s about feeling amazing in your own skin. Every procedure at Ace Aesthetics is carefully tailored to enhance your natural features, creating results that are subtle, sophisticated, and completely genuine. Clients consistently rave about how natural their results look. Whether it’s Botox, dermal fillers, jawline enhancements, or other facial rejuvenation treatments, Paula ensures that every procedure highlights your best features without ever appearing overdone. Her extensive experience allows her to combine technical skill with an artistic eye, delivering results that enhance confidence and radiance while maintaining complete authenticity. Beyond exceptional results, Ace Aesthetics is known for its incredible package pricing. Paula believes that premium aesthetic treatments should be accessible and offer real value. From combination treatment packages to specialized services, clients enjoy customized plans that maximize results while keeping treatments affordable. This approach ensures that looking and feeling your best doesn’t have to come with a hefty price tag, making top-tier care approachable for everyone. One of the most exciting offerings at Ace Aesthetics is the Glass Skin Microneedling, Paula’s personal cocktail of expertly selected ingredients designed for lasting, transformative results. This innovative treatment has clients ecstatic, delivering the kind of skin clarity, texture, and glow they never thought possible. The Glass Skin Microneedling is more than just a facial treatment-it’s a game-changer for anyone looking to rejuvenate their skin and enhance their overall appearance. Paula’s meticulous attention to detail and commitment to using the highest-quality ingredients ensures that each session leaves clients with noticeable, long-lasting improvements that keep them coming back for more. At Ace Aesthetics, Paula’s passion for her clients goes beyond the treatments themselves. She prioritizes helping clients feel confident, empowered, and radiant in every aspect of their appearance. From the first consultation to the final results, every client is treated like family, receiving expert guidance and a personalized approach that addresses their unique goals and desires. In a world full of fleeting beauty trends, Ace Aesthetics stands out by delivering natural, lasting results that make a genuine difference in clients’ lives. With Paula Shuster’s extensive experience, innovative treatments like Glass Skin Microneedling, exceptional package pricing, and a philosophy rooted in helping people look and feel their best, Ace Aesthetics is redefining what it means to experience premium aesthetic care in New Jersey. For those seeking natural enhancements, expert guidance, and transformational results, Ace Aesthetics is truly the ultimate destination. Ace Aesthetics is located at 125 Washington Valley Rd., in Warren, NJ, with a second location at 515 Madison Ave. in NYC. For inquiries or to schedule an appointment, call 973-769-2782 or visit them at www.aceaes.com. COMMENDS Ace Aesthetics – Warren, New Jersey: Where Natural Beauty Meets Exceptional Results CONNECTION In a world full of fleeting beauty trends, Ace Aesthetics stands out by delivering natural, lasting results that make a genuine difference in clients’ lives. 125 Washington Valley Rd. Warren, NJ 973-769-2782 www.aceaes.com A 908-658-3800 (voice) | 908-658-4659 (fax) info@fbolawfirm.com For more information, visit our website: www.fbolawfirm.com 4 Essex Avenue, PO Box 259, Bernardsville, NJ 07924 PRACTICE AREAS: Trust, Estates, Guardianships • School Law • Employment We’re Here When You Need Us Most Elizabeth C. Flanagan Managing Partner Rita F. Barone Partner Michelle M. O’Brien Partner
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SHOPPING, DINING, BEAUTY & EVENTS PAGE 16 theconnectionsnj.com ew Jersey Ballroom Dance Couple Rising from Amateur to Professional Ranks Nationwide In the demanding world of ballroom sports dancing, progress is measured not only by medals, but by consistency, discipline, and the courage to take the next step. Anhelina Rozghon and her dance partner Artur Solomovych, based in New Jersey, are doing exactly that as they continue to rise on the national stage. Specializing in the Latin American program of ballroom sports dance, the duo has competed in 21 competitions across the United States, steadily building momentum and recognition. Their commitment has translated into strong results, including multiple victories, with five wins achieved in just the past five months, marking a clear surge in competitive success. A major milestone came this year when Anhelina and Artur transitioned from the Amateur Division to the Professional Division — a move that quickly proved wellearned. Before turning professional, the pair reached the final at the U.S. National Amateur Championship, confirming their standing among the top amateur competitors in the country. Just five months later, they made their debut at the Professional National Championship, where they once again reached the finals — this time in two professional categories. The rapid progression from amateur finalists to professional national finalists underscores the effectiveness of their disciplined approach and relentless work ethic. Their success is rooted in structure: consistent training, strict routines, and a long-term mindset focused on growth rather than shortcuts. Competition after competition, they have demonstrated that persistence and preparation can produce results at the highest levels. Anhelina Rozghon and Arthur Solomovych represent the growing presence of elite competitive ballroom talent in New Jersey, showing that dedication and consistency can lead to national recognition. As they continue competing across the United States, their trajectory suggests that this rising professional Latin dance duo is only just getting started. COMMUNITY CHAMPIONS Persistence, Perseverance and Preparation Danced Them into the Pros! CONNECTION N Specializing in the Latin American pro Mon.-Fri 6:30 am - 4 pm, Sat 7 am - 4 pm, Sun 7 am - 3pm New Owners Jenna & Nick Same faces, same ingredients, same quality! • •
SHOPPING, DINING, BEAUTY & EVENTS PAGE 17 theconnectionsnj.com ome couples make me want to puke. And it’s not because I’m a carefree 30-yearold bachelor looking for love in the desolate wasteland that is the NJ dating pool. It’s because of one very specific thing I see. Picture this, you’re at a nice restaurant, made a reservation months ahead of time. You’re at the bar, sipping a $35 martini (another gripe of mine, but I digress)... You see a couple walk in, the lady in a great dress and heels, full hair, and makeup. Her date? Looks something like Mr. “Old Me.” And you can’t help but think… Are they going to two different restaurants? I call this “The Great Mismatch.” One partner is dressed up, put together, and the other is… there. While I HOPE you’re not wearing hoodies and Lulu’s, men today think it’s ok to wear their everyday wear to date night, when in reality, it’s showing subtle signs of disrespect for your partner and the effort they put into their own looks. And who wants a relationship like that? But I know this is an argument I can’t make alone. So I’m calling in help. For this edition, I interviewed four special ladies in my life about what they look for on date night, asking them all the same questions. Here we go! A) What piece of clothing can a guy wear that instantly improves his style? B) What’s your perfect date night ‘fit’ for a guy? C) What are some style red flags you look out for on a date? Ok Ladies, take it away! C- 29, Registered Nurse, Hoboken (Engaged) FASHIONFLASH They Don’t Sell Hot Dogs Here By David J. Marzano Manager, Adams Fine Clothing A) I love when a guy is smart with layers. A nice dress shirt with a quarter zip, if it’s well fitted, it elevates a casual look. B) Perfect date night fit: nice pants and a clean dress shirt or quarter zip. I don’t like jeans and sneakers. I want to feel they put in an effort to look nice for me. C) Red flags - sweat shirts. I think you can put in more effort for a date night than a sweatshirt. If you want to be comfy, swap a sweatshirt for a sweater. It still gives cozy vibes but classier! C- 26, Speech Therapist, NJ (Married) A) A nice jacket goes a long way. It’s like the cherry on top of an outfit, so I like when people put extra thought into it! B) Perfect date night fit would be a combination of smart/casual! Dark jeans dressed up with a nice sweater or button up is a great look. C) Stains! Why is that still in your closet?! S- 31, Teacher, South Jersey (Single) A) Accessorizing and knowing how to do it well! B) Jeans and a sweater or flannel. Shoes matter too— they can be sneakers, but they can’t be run down, dirty work out shoes. C) Hats. Whether it’s something overly formal, or overly casual like you just came from the gym. No shorts or toes. F- 28, CBCP, NJ/NYC (It’s Complicated) A) Anything without a drawstring or elastic waist is impressive nowadays. B) You know I love a Chelsea boot. But specifically, a dark button down, grey tailored pants, and dark Chelsea boots. I’m a sucker for a good coat, too. C) FLANNELS. I HATE FLANNELS. Save it for the farm! And sneakers? My grandmother would clutch her pearls. Thanks Ladies! So on your next date night, don’t be afraid to put on those elevated dressy pieces! It’s ok to dress up, and in my mind (and these lovely ladies’ minds as well), putting time into your appearance is crucial. It shows you care and always will. So now if you’re reading this and realize you don’t have those date night essentials, come see your friendly neighborhood clothiers at Adams. We’ll get you kitted up. Adams Fine Clothing & Tuxedo 1275 Springfield Avenue New Providence, New Jersey (908) 665-0800 S Quality Clothing & Service You Can Trust, Prices You’ll Love Adam’s Fine Clothing is proud to announce the opening of our new tailor service. Whether you need to have a new suit fitted or need alterations to a garment you already own, our Master Tailors are ready to work for you. Our Tailor Shop is open to the public and specializes in fine alteration for Men. Adams Fine Clothing & Tuxedo 908-665-0800 www.adamsfineclothing.com 1275 Springfield Avenue | New Providence Introducing “City Tailors” Professional Alterations Outside tailoring service for Men's and Women's Clothing Whether Purchased Here or Not To make an appointment with the tailor, please call (201) 688-6449
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SHOPPING, DINING, BEAUTY & EVENTS PAGE 20 theconnectionsnj.com ranny squares are just as popular today as in the ’70s. Look on TikTok, Instagram, and Etsy, and see them featured as garments, accessories, home decor, toys, and even emotional support chicks. (See Nov 2025 article.) They’re called granny squares since they were created from scraps by grandmothers. The simple technique has been passed down through generations. Granny squares are versatile and fun to make. They can vary in size and shape-think round, pentagonal, hexagonal or triangular orientation. They can be basic or elaborate. What is a granny square? It’s a crocheted motif that starts at the center and is worked outward in rounds. Each round uses a different color. A classic granny square is worked in clusters of double crochet with chains in between and double clusters in the corners to form a square. With each additional round, the granny square increases in size. The effect is a lacy looking square that resembles a quilt block. It is easily mastered by beginners, which makes it a popular first project. Granny squares are made separately; so it’s a great carry-along project. Once the squares are complete, they need to be arranged into the shape of the project and then stitched together to make just about anything. Each square needs to have the same number of stitches on each side And then there are the bags! The “Granny Square Beach Bag” by Catherine Neil is 5-14’ squares, 4 sides, and a bottom with crocheted handles. This one was made with scrap cotton yarn. Try adding a square to a baseball cap for fun. There are so many ways to embrace this trend! And of course, shawls and scarves. My “Catch the Wind” design uses 3 different motif sizes that fit together when assembled, i.e., four small squares equal one large square which equals two rectangles. The shawl used 3 different motif types. The large motif begins as a circle design…the small square is solid. The rectangle is a leaf motif woven into a border. Proud to share that this shawl went down the runway at Vogue Live NYC, January 2026. Patterns available on Ravelry. for easy assembly. First the squares are stitched together in column and then the long side or the columns are stitched. A favorite simple blanket is “One Big Granny Square Throw and Afghan” by Churchmouse Yarns and Teas. It’s literally just one giant granny square in the classic design. It can be made with variegated yarn with a long repeat, meaning the colors change after many yards. It gives the appearance of frequent color changes, however, the yarn does all the work. When it reaches the desired size, you’re done. No assembly required. Looking for cardigans? The latest trend is granny squares with a bit of faux fur in one round of the square. This cardigan uses only 16 large motifs, 4 for each sleeve, back, and front. After the squares are assembled, the entire garment is trimmed with an edging for a finished look. Granny squares are just as pop CREATIVECORNER Granny Squares Forever By Carolyn Hanson Has chocolate become a problem in your life? Unable to say no? Valentine’s gone on too long? The solution is finally here. The Chocolate Detox Center is here to help... There IS a cure for eating your feelings! You are NOT alone! February enrollment is already full but March panic slots are still available! Find us at www.thechocolatedetoxcenter.com or Call us at (822) CHOC-HELP Help is just a call or click away Giorgios Pappas Furrier 914 Mt. Kemble Avenue Morristown, NJ 07960 973-425-1111 www.giorgiospappasfurrier.com Tuesday - Saturday 10 am - 5 pm • Private Parking Re-Styling Re-Sizing Re-Lining Repairs Cold Storage Cleaning & Glazing Custom Designs PRE-SEASON SALE
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