Cover Artwork By Patti Kaufman AUTUMN'S ALLURE Shopping, Beauty, Dining & Events Back To School FAMILY ADVENTURES Celebrate Brite Nites at Wagner Farm FALL IN LOVE WITH LIFE Discomfort Isn't the End of the World PLAY TO WIN Details on page 6! VOLUME CI SEPT/OCT/NOV 2025 Bernards-Ridge Edition Bernardsville, Basking Ridge, Bedminster, Mendham, Far Hills, Peapack/Gladstone, Chester, Morristown
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THE BERNARDS-RIDGE CONNECTION PAGE 6 SEPT/OCT/NOV 2025 8 Commends: Eileen Terri - Flowers, Gifts & Decor 10 Financial Forum: Shapiro CPAs 12 Family Law: Cadicina Law, LLC 14 Commends: Mark’s Auto Service 16 Community News: Literacy Volunteers of Somerset County 17 Lawyer’s View: Fox Rothschild 18-21 BACK-TO-SCHOOL 19 Family Adventures: Joanne Kleinle 20 Commends: HudsonWay Immersion School 22-26 AUTUMN’S ALLURE Shopping, Beauty, & Dining 22 Library Lowdown: Friends of Bernards Township Library 24 Mission In Motion: Natasha Adiga, Knit Crochet 26 Slice of Life: Ellyn Mantell 27-28 SENIOR LIVING 28 Senior Corner: Ellyn Mantell 33-42 HOME & DESIGN 34 Home Improvement: TrueLeaf Kitchens 36 Home Improvement: Buy-Rite Overhead Doors 38 Hints for the Home- Fair Street Interiors 43-51 HEALTH & WELLNESS 43 Medical Minutes: Janjua Facial Surgery 44 Health Hotline: Community in Crisis 46 Health Hotline: NMR 47 Fall In Love With Life: Serafina Perrotto 48 Food for Thought: Lori Kolodin, MPH, RD 50 Mind the Mind: Dr. Michael Osit 51 Ask The Eye Doctor: Bedminster Eye & Laser Center 52 Community News: Jewish Family Service 54-55 COMMUNITY CALENDAR 56 Real Estate Corner: KW Metropolitan-Crawford & Lorenzo 56 Creative Corner: Carolyn Hanson Patti Kaufman Title: Coastal Reverie…. Medium: 14X14 Acrylic painting on Canvas Patti Kaufman is an abstract artist whose work explores the intersection of memory and emotion. Drawing from personal experiences, Patti uses vibrant colors and sweeping strokes to transform memories into expressive compositions. Each painting represents moments frozen in time, where emotions are distilled into vivid colors. Her work invites viewers to engage not only with the visual elements but with the personal narratives embedded in each piece. By abstracting memory details, Patti creates space for reflection and interpretation, encouraging others to see their own stories within her art. Patti’s exhibitions have earned her recognition for her unique approach to abstraction and her ability to evoke powerful emotional responses. Her art is a testament to the transient nature of human experience, where memories constantly shift and reimagine themselves. “As an abstract artist, I believe in art’s power to inspire and create positive change. I dedicate a portion of my art sales to nonprofit organizations. Giving back is a core part of my journey—each piece has a purpose beyond the canvas.” Patti is based in Morristown, NJ, and is the volunteer president of CURE for IBD. She enjoys exercise, meditation, reading, writing, and cherishes time with her adult sons. THE CONNECTION MAGAZINE'S TEAM PUBLISHED BY Donna Reina, Georgeann Agaisse, Heather Silver, Patty Herman, Alicia Singman, Jeanette Vogel, Pramisa Tamsina The Connection Magazine P.O. Box 4081, Warren, NJ 07059 908-903-1799 | info@theconnectionsnj.com Somewhere in this magazine is aFAKE AD. Spot it and send your answer, along with your name, city or town and phone number to: spotthefake@theconnectionsnj.com or play online at theconnectionsnj.com The WINNER of the Professional Queue Standers in the June issue is Diane Wolfe of New Providence. Diane won a gift certificate to Gabagool Deli in Berkeley Heights. Next Issue November! Advertising deadline October 24, 2025 SPOT THE FAKE! Disclaimer: The views expressed in the articles are the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of The Connection Magazines. We publish all advertisements, editorials and other content in good faith. We cannot guarantee or accept liability for the accuracy of the claims made by the advertisers. ON OUR COVER Highlights... Welcome to the Bernards-Ridge edition of the September 2025 issue of The Connection Magazine. As the golden days of summer wind down, we welcome the crisp air and cozy charm of fall. The season brings a refreshing shift… changing leaves, layered sweaters, apple-picking adventures, and pumpkin-flavored everything that fills us with warmth and nostalgia. At The Connection Magazine, we’re embracing the beauty of autumn and all it has to o er. From decorating your home to refreshing your wellness routine, finding thoughtful seasonal gifts, or discovering hidden gems in our community, this issue is your go-to guide for fall inspiration. Be sure to check out our Autumn’s Allure section, filled with seasonal tips, local resources, and services to help you make the most of this time of year. Our Back-to-School section is also here to support students and families as they dive into another successful new school year. As we ease into the season of giving, we also invite you to explore the many nonprofit organizations featured throughout this issue. Fall is a wonderful time to get involved and lend a helping hand, making a di erence close to home and connecting with your local community. Are you in full “fall-swing” yet? Cooler days, longer nights, sweater weather, and Halloween! Joanne Kleinle shares a fun, festive, and autumnal event in our Family Adventures column. Each year Wagner Farms in Warren celebrates the season with Brite Nites. And it’s also a fundraiser! Show your support and have a magical night out with your little ones, older ones and the whole family, because there is something for everyone to enjoy! Get a vitamin D tutorial from Ellyn Mantell in our Senior Corner column. Ellyn points out the importance of this powerful nutrient for all people, but in particular, for seniors who may not have regular access to the sun. She urges seniors to prioritize getting some sunshine each day. In addition, she recommends foods high in vitamin D and possibly supplementing under the direction of a doctor. As we wrap up summer, what better way to bid adieu, than by gracing our cover with a landscape painting titled, Coastal Reverie. The artist, Patti Kaufman, was inspired by her “deep connection to the coastlines” she has always been drawn to. She chose to use “…rich greens and blues to reflect the dance between land and sea.” The various hues in the sky portray the dynamic horizon with its constantly changing colors. This painting has a very peaceful, calming e ect on the viewer, making one wish summer would never end! As always, when you visit a business you discovered through The Connection, let them know you saw them here and #TellThemWeSentYou! Wishing you a joyful and inspiring autumn-filled with color, comfort, and community. Warmly, Anna Petro Publisher, The Connection Magazine A Note From Our Publisher... CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Natasha Adiga, Chris Baggio, Eileen Barna, Gail Bicknell, Natalia Black Nick Concilio, Sabrina Concilio, Carolyn Hanson, Dr. Tanveer Janjua, Joanne Kleinle, Lori Kolodin, Jessica Diamond Lia, Peter Lorenzo, Ellyn Mantell, Katrina Musto, Dr. Michael Osit, Serafina Perrotto, Dr. Vince Sferra, Robert Shapiro, Eric S. Soloto Photographer: Panos Stogioglou
THE BERNARDS-RIDGE CONNECTION PAGE 8 SEPT/OCT/NOV 2025 theconnectionsnj.com ileen Terri arrived like a breath of fresh air this past September. The flower shop offers a thoughtfully curated selection of flowers, gifts, and home goods, alongside a large, inviting studio that serves as a setting for creative workshops, classes, and gatherings for all ages. Owner Eileen brings both passion and pedigree to her work. She earned her floral design certification in New York and went on to apprentice with some of the most respected designers in New Jersey, New York, Chicago, and England. A devoted gardener as well, Eileen has personally cultivated hundreds of perennial flower varieties in her own cutting gardens. Today, she combines her deep-rooted knowledge and love of flowers by sourcing premium blooms from around the world while partnering with local farmers to ensure each arrangement is of the highest quality. To experience the delight of Eileen Terri Eileen Terri, step inside and explore their unique Gift Bar! Browse their curated selection of ready-made floral arrangements and gift items, each designed to inspire and enchant. Prefer something more handson? Embrace your inner designer and custom-create your own gift! Select your container and thoughtfully curate your own assortment to be professionally presented. Whether you’re celebrat- CONNECTION COMMENDS ing a special occasion or simply looking to brighten someone’s day, Eileen Eileen Terri offers a gifting experience that’s as thoughtful as it is memorable. Planning a special event? Whether it’s a family celebration or a corporate gathering, Eileen and her team have a keen eye for adorning spaces with beauty and intention while honoring each client’s individual vision. They offer thoughtful ideas and custom touches that enhance every event and create a warm, lasting impression. In addition to floral and gifting services, Eileen Terri Eileen Terri’s studio space serves as a creative haven for workshops and gatherings throughout the year. Their online calendar features a variety of experiences, including custom lanterns, seasonal wreaths, floral pumpkins, candle and wine bottle décor, derby hat design, flower arranging with both fresh and silks/everlastings, crepe paper realistic flowers, and much more. Consider this an open invitation to let your creativity bloom in a space that celebrates artistry, connection, and joy. At Eileen Terri, every client is met with the highest standard of service, attention to detail, and the professionalism you expect and deserve. Eileen and her team look forward to working with you and helping you create something truly beautiful. 908-329-2444 465 South Finley Ave. Basking Ridge, NJ Flowers, a Gift Bar and Workshops Abound E
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THE BERNARDS-RIDGE CONNECTION PAGE 10 SEPT/OCT/NOV 2025 theconnectionsnj.com 80 years of professional service Fee-based Wealth Management Tax-efficient Investing Family Office Services Financial Planning Tailored Service, Disciplined Strategies, and Committed Guidance. Individual Tax Preparation Business Tax Preparation Accounting Estate and Trusts Accounting Services are provided by Shapiro Certified Public Accountants and not a service provided by Raymond James. Shapiro CPA's and Shapiro Financial Group is not a registered broker/dealer and is independent of Raymond James Financial Services. Complimentary Initial Consultation 30 Technology Dr., Warren, NJ 908-222-3770 info@shapirogrp.com The key to your financial success shapirogrp.com Sophisticated expertise for today and future generations. Securities offered through Raymond James Financial Services, Inc., member FINRA/SIPC. Raymond James and its advisors do not offer tax or legal advice. You should discuss any tax or legal matters with the appropriate professional. Investment advisory services are offered through Raymond James Financial Services Advisors, Inc. Shapiro Financial Group is not a registered broker/dealer and is independent of Raymond James Financial Services. y now, you have heard about the most recent sweeping tax legislation. HR 1, or, as the President has named it, the One Big, Beautiful Bill! Of course, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The CEO of the American Institute of Certified Public Accountants, however, has deemed the bill a win for millions of businesses and taxpayers across the country. Let’s explore the key provisions beyond rates and standard deductions. Let’s look at the Big changes! The law extends tax cuts from the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act (TCJA) of 2017, which were previously set to expire or “sunset” at the end of this year. By lowering income tax rates, expanding deductions, and essentially making certain exemptions permanent, the bill provides more certainty around current income taxes and future tax planning. As residents of NJ, state and local taxes (SALT) are significant for us. The law increases the SALT deduction from $10,000 (way too low) to $40,000, which is indexed to inflation and subject to phaseout. As previously written, well-informed business owners in high-tax states can elect to deduct state taxes via the pass-through entity method (PTE). The bill continues the full PTE deduction. The increased $40,000 SALT cap will result in more taxpayers itemizing deductions. The Big Bill was kind to estates and beneficiaries. The gift and estate tax exemption increased to $13.99 million for singles and $27.98 million for married couples in 2025 rather than reverting to prior levels. In 2026, it increases to $15 million and $30 million, respectively, and indexes to inflation thereafter. These higher exemptions will provide relief for most. The best part is the “step up” in basis, which shields beneficiaries from capital gains tax and leaves appreciated assets intact. A popular feature of the bill is the provision for no tax on tips and overtime within limits. The bill also creates a limited below-the-line deduction for cash charity donations, along with auto interest on US cars. Contrary to discussions, social security taxability remains unchanged. NJ does not tax Social Security benefits (one for the home team!). The 20% small business deduction for qualified business income (QBI) becomes permanent with this legislation. Many business owners may be able to deduct up to 20% of their qualified business income. There is a new savings account provision for children that is called (what else?) Trump IRA accounts. The pilot program provides a $1,000 seed payment directly from the US Treasury when opening a Trump account for a child born between Jan. 1, 2025, and Dec. 31, 2028. Contributions of up to $5,000 per year can be made by parents and normal distributions may be made after age 18. Lastly, I would not bet that this is a complete listing of the contents of the 870 pages in the OBBA. If I did, I would only be able to deduct my losses up to 90%! If you would like to see the full details of the before and after of the One Big, Beautiful Bill, simply send me an email at rshapiro@shapirogrp.com. I will forward you a detailed flow chart. We have provided proactive individualized tax management along with timely and accurate preparation for over 75 years. I would welcome the opportunity to help your family and business grow and prosper. You should discuss any tax or legal matter with your tax or legal advisor. Shapiro CPAs does not provide legal services. This article is not to be construed as written advice under IRS circular 230. FINANCIALFORUM One Beautiful, Little Article By Robert Shapiro CPA, ABV Shapiro CPAs be able to deduct my loss We have provided proac tive individualized tax man B
THE BERNARDS-RIDGE CONNECTION PAGE 12 SEPT/OCT/NOV 2025 theconnectionsnj.com Cadicina Law, LLC primarily practices in the area of divorce, family law, domestic violence, prenuptial/post-nuptial agreements and related matters dealing with alimony, custody, child support, and equitable distribution along with dissolution of domestic partnerships, civil unions and same sex divorces. The firm has developed an excellent reputation in family law, has been recognized in various publications, our attorneys serve on various family law committees and lecture for County and State Bar Associations. Cadicina Law, LLC continues to serve clients in Morris, Somerset and the surrounding Northern New Jersey counties. The firm also performs complex family law mediations and arbitrations for private clients and court appointed assignments. Please visit our website and social media sites to obtain more information about the firm and members. MATRIMONIAL & FAMILY LAW Cadicina Law, LLC TEL: 973-270-9166 FAX: 973-843-6072 cadicinalaw.com Pasqua S. Cadicina, Thomas R. McConnell, Joseph P. Cadicina, Mauro D. Altamura, Carly DiFrancisco 36 Cattano Ave., 6th Floor, Morristown, New Jersey 07960 Office Location: 26 McCann Mill Rd, Pottersville, NJ 07979 f you are ready to file for divorce in New Jersey and need the assistance of an experienced family law firm, Cadicina Law is here to represent you and ensure you understand your rights to alimony. There are 4 types of alimony that can be granted: open durational, limited durational, rehabilitative, and reimbursement. The alimony factors are: 1. The actual need and ability of the parties to pay. 2. The duration of the marriage/civil union. 3. The age, physical, and emotional health of the parties. 4. The standard of living established and the likelihood that each party can maintain a reasonably comparable standard of living, with neither party having a greater entitlement to that standard than the other. 5. The earning capacities, educational levels, vocational skills, and employability of the parties. 6. The length of absence from the job market of the party seeking maintenance. 7. The parental responsibilities for the children. 8. The time/expense necessary to acquire sufficient education/training to enable the party seeking maintenance to find appropriate employment, the availability of the training/employment, and the opportunity for future acquisitions of capital assets and income. 9. The history of the financial and non-financial contributions to the marriage/civil union by each party, including contributions to the care and education of the children and interruption of personal careers or educational opportunities. 10.The equitable distribution ordered, and any payouts of equitable distribution, directly or indirectly, out of current income, to the extent this consideration is reasonable, just, and fair. 11. The income available to each party through the investment of assets held by that party. 12. The tax treatment/consequences to both parties of the alimony award, including whether all or a part of it is non-taxable. 13. The nature, amount, and length of the pendente lite support aid, if any. 14. Other factors the Court may deem relevant. For marriages of over 20 years, the Court can award open durational alimony. For a marriage less than 20 years, the alimony shall not exceed the length of the marriage, except in exceptional circumstances. In determining the length of the term, consideration of the time it would reasonably take to improve the earning capacity to a level where the limited duration alimony is no longer appropriate. It can be modified based upon “changed circumstances” or the non-occurrence of events the Court found would happen at the time of the award. The Court can modify the amount, but not the term, absent unusual circumstances. Rehabilitative alimony is given so a spouse can obtain education or training to enable them to support themselves. It can be modified based upon “changed circumstances” or upon non-occurrence of circumstances the Court found would occur at the time of the award. Reimbursement alimony is awarded when one party supported the other through an advanced education, which shall not be modified for any reason. Joseph Cadicina has been licensed to practice law for over 27 years and has exclusively practiced divorce and family law. Mr. Cadicina served as the Morris County Bar Association and Foundation President and was recognized with the Family Law Award in 2024. He serves on the Family Law Executive Committee of the NJ State Bar Association Family Law Section. Mr. Cadicina has been consistently included in Super Lawyers Top 100, Best Lawyer, NJ Family Magazine, and Top Morris Lawyers by Morris/Essex Magazine. Navigating Alimony Your Questions Answered I FAMILYLAW
THE BERNARDS-RIDGE CONNECTION PAGE 14 SEPT/OCT/NOV 2025 theconnectionsnj.com ark’s Auto Service, nestled in Gillette, has been a trusted family-owned destination for comprehensive automotive repairs and maintenance since 1989. This AAA-approved facility combines in-depth diagnostics with skilled workmanship to deliver reliable service and a two-year/24,000 mile warranty (whichever comes first.) Owner Mark Ierubino built the business on the pillars of providing top-notch service and a customer-first attitude. His clients return again and again because of the reliability of his service and the fairness of his pricing. “Mark’s Auto Service Mark’s Auto Service is part of the community, and we get to know our clients very well,” Mark says. “We have serviced the same clients for years. I’ve had the same clients send their children to us when they get their own cars.” Mark’s Auto Service specializes in general automotive service and repairs, but the team puts a special emphasis on accurate and honest diagnostics. Mark’s technicians check 40 different points before working on any vehicle. This is essential to getting an accurate assessment of the service a car needs. Transparent pricing with clear cost estimates is emphasized at Mark’s Auto Service Mark’s Auto Service. “We are our clients’ advocates,” says Mark. “After checking 40 points on the vehicle, taking pictures, and adding them to the repair order, we make a report and present everything to the client. We go to the fullest extent we can in our diagnostic steps to check the vehicle properly so we can give people everything they need to know to decide how to proceed.” Mark gives the example, “When a client comes in for a brake issue, we bring the car in, do a courtesy check, and then code scan all the modules. We read the codes, if any, about the brakes, the ABS, and more. If the car is deemed drivable, we will road test it around town and on the highway to get a baseline of brake performance before we remove the wheels to do a visual check and take brake lining measurements. We then present our findings in writing and in pictures and give a full estimate.” The team of certified technicians at Mark’s Mark’s Auto Service is trained in diagnostics, repair, and service for all makes and models of automobiles. The staff continually takes educational classes and training courses to keep up to date with the latest techniques. Mark’s technicians are equipped to handle a wide range of services—from routine maintenance like oil changes and tire rotations to complex repairs including engine, air conditioning, transmission, and electrical system repairs. Mark and his team put customer experience at the heart of their operation. “We want to make sure every car we work on is safe, reliable, and efficient…That’s our job,” he states. The team is committed to providing high-quality service at a fair and honest price. Loaner cars and shuttle service are available by appointment. Mark’s Auto Service Mark’s Auto Service also offers local pickup and delivery services for repairs by appointment. Mark’s Auto Service is located at 834 Valley Rd. in Gillette. For more information, visit www.marksauto.com or call 908-647-7276. COMMENDS Mark’s Auto Service Delivers Reliability, Quality, & Trustworthy Repair and Maintenance CONNECTION 834 Valley Road Gillette, NJ 908-647-7276 www.marksauto.com Mark’s Auto Service, FAMILIES ARE COMPLEX. FAMILY LEGAL MATTERS CAN BE EVEN MORE SO. YOU DON’T HAVE TO FACE THEM ALONE. RIKER DANZIG FAMILY LAW. EXCELLENCE AT WORK. To find out more, contact Allen Scazafabo,Esq. Certified Matrimonial Law Attorney by the Supreme Court of New Jersey.* 973.451.8428 or ascazafabo@riker.com *For information on the Supreme Court of New Jersey Board on Attorney Certification visit: www.njcourts.gov/attorneys/attcert.html WWW.RIKER.COM • CHECK OUT OUR BLOG AT RIKER.COM/BLOG/FAMILY-LAW MADISON • TRENTON • NEW YORK CITY ATTORNEYS AT LAW
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THE BERNARDS-RIDGE CONNECTION PAGE 16 SEPT/OCT/NOV 2025 theconnectionsnj.com communicate with her doctor without needing a translator. The ability to give her this autonomy made me feel so proud of her accomplishments in learning English.” Tutor Sau said, “I am often taken aback when a student tells me that I am the only person they speak to in English. It just reminds me of how isolating it can be for them. Being an English tutor is more than just teaching English. You are sharing culture, history, and how things work in America. I find it most rewarding when I hear how they have applied what was taught and practiced into a real-life setting, like talking to other parents at school or chit-chatting with neighbors.” LVSC’s tutors vary in age, background, and experience. Some are working and some are retired. You do not have to be a teacher to be a tutor, and you do not have to speak any language other than English. Tutors complete a four-week training course and are then matched with a student, based on availability, interests, and geography. Volunteering for LVSC gives you the opportunity to make a positive impact on our community while doing it based entirely on your schedule. Join us today! To become a tutor, register for services at Literacy Volunteers of Somerset County, or to learn more, please visit www.literacysomerset.org or call (908) 725-5430. magine having a medical emergency and not being able to tell the doctor what you are experiencing; or getting an email from your child’s school and not understanding a word of what you are reading. These are the kind of everyday situations that motivate non-English speakers to seek services from Literacy Volunteers of Somerset County (LVSC). Founded in 1981, LVSC is a non-profit organization that promotes literacy throughout the community by providing student-centered tutoring and literacy programs for adults so they can function more effectively in their daily lives. The adults LVSC serves struggle to read, write and communicate in English. LVSC accomplishes its mission by training volunteers to provide free English literacy programs. One-to-one and small group tutoring provides adult students with personalized, goal-focused instruction. LVSC LVSC matches trained volunteer tutors with adult students. During weekly tutoring sessions, the tutor and student identify the student’s literacy goals, and lesson plans are structured to help students achieve those goals, such as being able to call 9-1-1, ordering food at a restaurant, or making a haircut appointment. Tutors provide the dual role of English instructor and cultural guide while helping students feel less isolated. With improved literacy skills, adults in our community become more engaged parents, neighbors, and employees. LVSC volunteers also host English conversation groups, which provide students with an opportunity to improve English language comprehension and usage, gain confidence in speaking English, connect with others by practicing everyday conversation, and become culturally acclimated. Demand for LVSC’ LVSC’s services is soaring, with approximately 200 volunteer tutors serving more than 500 students from 51 different countries! Therefore, the need for tutors is great, and it’s a rewarding experience! LVSC pairs tutors and students from diverse backgrounds and cultures. Working together, tutor and student boost communication, foster cross-cultural understanding, and often establish long-lasting friendships. Volunteers find the tutoring experience to be very meaningful since they are directly helping someone in our community. Tutor Janet said this about her LVSC volunteer experience: “My student from Costa Rica told me that she was able to confidently COMMUNITY NEWS... Literacy Lasts a Lifetime Imagine having a medical emergen 908-658-3800 (voice) | 908-658-4659 (fax) info@fbolawfirm.com For more information, visit our website: www.fbolawfirm.com 4 Essex Avenue, PO Box 259, Bernardsville, NJ 07924 PRACTICE AREAS: Trust, Estates, Guardianships • School Law • Employment We’re Here When You Need Us Most Elizabeth C. Flanagan Managing Partner Rita F. Barone Partner Michelle M. O’Brien Partner
THE BERNARDS-RIDGE CONNECTION PAGE 17 SEPT/OCT/NOV 2025 theconnectionsnj.com renuptial agreements are signed for a reason. They limit a spouse’s claims to their partner’s premarital assets. Such agreements should hold up in court as long as all of the statutory requirements are met. That doesn’t stop litigants whose entitlements are limited, as well as their attorneys, from attacking them to try to get more money. It would be nice if the courts quickly dispatched such efforts to set these agreements aside, but that is not always the case. In addition to trying to invalidate the prenuptial agreement outright, a common “Hail Mary” tactic is to quibble about the language. This was the issue recently in the case of In the Matter of the Estate of Lynda Nathanson Sutton, deceased, a recent, unreported, Appellate Division decision. It should come as no surprise that the issue of the enforceability of a prenuptial agreement came out of estate litigation. In many cases, prenuptial agreements address not only what happens in a divorce, but also in the case of the death of a spouse. In this dispute, the parties were married in 1992 and signed a prenuptial agreement protecting the wife’s premarital assets. The marriage was less than ideal, and the parties lived separately for long periods of time. The evidence at trial showed that the decedent did not seek a divorce because of her faith and often stated her desire that her husband not inherit any part of her estate, particularly the property that she purchased prior to the marriage. The trial court found that the premarital agreement was enforceable. The husband’s first defense was that he never signed the prenuptial agreement and was unaware of its existence. As in most cases, this was a losing argument. The trial court found that he was not credible and that his testimony was “contradicted by multiple fact witnesses.” The trial court also found that his wife’s will disinheriting her husband was both self-proving and valid. The husband also claimed that the prenuptial agreement was invalid because he did not explicitly waive the “elective share.” The “elective share” is the default portion of a spouse’s estate to which the surviving spouse is generally entitled. In New Jersey, absent a prenuptial agreement, this is one-third. This argument was rejected by both the trial court and the Appellate Division. The Court noted that the prenuptial agreement provided that “[u]pon the death of either party, non-distributable property shall remain separate to be willed freely.” As to the husband’s argument that he did not specifically waive his right to the elective share, the Appellate Division disagreed and noted that: “The Agreement explicitly waives ‘any and all right[s]’ one party has as a result of the marital relationship including, but not limited to, equitable distribution of property . . . or other similar statutory scheme for the division of marital property.” The takeaway here is that when a prenuptial agreement says, “waiving all rights,” it means waiving all rights. For more information regarding divorce in New Jersey, contact Morristown-based Fox Rothschild Family Law attorneys Eric S. Solotoff at esolotoff@foxrothschild.com or (973) 994-7501 or Jessica Diamond Lia at jlia@foxrothschild.com or (973) 994-7517. LAWYER’SVIEW When a Prenuptial Agreement Says ‘Waiving All Rights’ It Means Waiving All Rights By Eric S. Solotoff and Jessica Diamond Lia - - - - It should come as no surprise that the issue of the enforceability of a prenuptial agreement came out of estate litigation. P Morristown | Princeton | Atlantic City Handling family law matters throughout New Jersey When It’s Your Move High-net-worth divorce is complicated. Division of assets, complex income, custody. The rules can seem tilted against you. Our attorneys have the legal know-how and national firm resources it takes to design a successful strategy.* Dedicated. Driven. Committed to helping you reach your goals. Eric Solotoff esolotoff@foxrothschild.com 973.994.7501 Jessica Diamond Lia jlia@foxrothschild.com 973.994.7517 *Results may vary depending on your particular facts and legal circumstances.
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PAGE 19 BACK SCHOOL theconnectionsnj.com Brighter futures begin with school choice. Explore the benefits of Catholic education! Proud to be a small school with a bigger purpose, School of St. Elizabeth is the area's premier choice for private, faith-based education for children in Pre-K through 8th Grade. Experience the St. Elizabeth difference: — Small class sizes with expert faculty — Rigorous, challenging curriculum — Traditional, values-based learning environment — Cognia STEM certified school — Competitive athletics — Vibrant music and arts programs Discover More at steschool.org 30 Seney Drive, Bernardsville, NJ 07924 — admissions@steschool.org 908-766-0244 x 204 hose long summer days are behind us. Fall is coming with its cozy sweaters, crisp, colorful days, and darker, longer nights. That does not mean we have to hibernate. One way to bring a little light into those long nights and embrace the season is to check out Brite Nites Brite Nites at the Wagner Farm Arboretum at 197 Mountain Avenue in Warren. Brite Nites has been a popular fundraiser for the Wagner Farms Arboretum for years. Each fall, the community comes together to marvel at its festive and brightly lit autumnal displays. The lit-up jack o’ lanterns are interspersed with displays of skeletons and, last year, even a moving, litup flying saucer. You never know what you are going to see at Brite Nites Brite Nites! The displays are all family-friendly and suitable for all ages, but this year there will be a “spooky” section as well as a not-sospooky section that will be lit up with skeletons and displays that are an homage to the not-so-scary side of fall’s favorite holiday- Halloween! Also new this year, young families with earlier bedtimes will be able to enjoy Brite Nites Brite Nites before nightfall sets in. Brite Nites will open in the late afternoon with food trucks and children’s games in addition to admission to the gardens to see the displays. This will enable our youngest patrons to be safely tucked into bed (fed and tired out!) by the time the moon comes up. Wagner Farms Arboretum is a local, nonprofit organization. Its grounds, facilities, and educational programs are dedicated to environmental and horticultural education through its beautiful, natural setting. Their grounds include a community garden with over 110 plots on dedicated space for gardeners to get their hands dirty, enjoy nature, the company of fellow gardeners, and grow their own food organically. You cannot get fresher, more locally grown produce than that! There is also a Giving Garden, which is cultivated by volunteers and is dedicated to raising vegetables that will feed our neighbors who do not have access to healthy and fresh meals. The produce is distributed to local food banks, pantries, and kitchens. The “Growing to Give” program at the Giving Garden works with local schools, youth service groups, and organizations to give youth the opportunity to learn where food comes from and how food insecurity affects the lives of many in nearby towns. Let’s not forget the Children’s Garden. Covering about 1/3 acre, the Children’s Garden is a magical place where children can discover, explore, observe, and play. It contains life-size cow sculptures, a sensory garden, outdoor musical instruments, and native plantings to provide habitat and food for pollinators, butterflies, and birds. Brite Nites and a plant sale around Mother’s Day are the two major fundraisers for Wagner Farms Arboretum. Your ticket to Brite Nites does not just secure you a magical night out-it supports the mission of Wagner Farms Arboretum. Brite Nites opens its doors on Fridays and Saturdays. The dates this year are October 10-11, 17-18, and 24-25. Don’t miss it! Tickets must be purchased in advance on their website at www.wfafnj.org. For more information, you can email administrator@wfafnj.org or go to the website. Brite Nites is Lighting Up! By Joanne Kleinle FAMILY ADVENTURES Those long summer days are be
BACK SCHOOL PAGE 20 theconnectionsnj.com HudsonWay Immersion School provides a supportive & transformational preschool – Grade 8 education: Preschool Rolling Admission: 2.5–4 years old Bi-literacy and fluency in Spanish/English or Mandarin/English Advanced academic development in English, Math & Science Supportive social-emotional environment Understanding of different cultures Admissions Events Register Now: www.hwis.org/admission-events Spanish & Mandarin Full Immersion Preschool 2's through Grade 8 249 Bebout Ave Stirling, NJ 07980 | 908.598.8088 Day School | Summer Camp | Sleepaway Enrichment Program | Playgroups DAY SCHOOL BUS SERVICE SY 2025 - 2026 MILLBURN SHORT HILLS SOUTH ORANGE MAPLEWOOD DON'T MISS THE CRITICAL WINDOW FOR LANGUAGE DEVELOPMENT – AGES 0-13! HEARFROM OURALUMNI Watch the Video Online at: theconnectionsnj.com TAKE A CLOSER LOOK! udsonWay Immersion School (HWIS), a trailblazer in Mandarin and Spanish immersion education, is celebrating its 20th anniversary this year, marking two decades of empowering students to become confident, capable, and globally minded leaders. Founded in 2005, HWIS was among the first schools in the New York–New Jersey area to offer full language immersion beginning as early as age 2. Today, with campuses in Stirling, NJ, and Midtown West, NYC, HWIS HWIS serves students from preschool through grade 8 in a rigorous academic program delivered in both English and the target language. What Makes HWIS Unique Unlike traditional foreign language programs, HWIS immerses students in Mandarin or Spanish for up to 90% of the day in early years, gradually balancing with English to ensure high levels of biliteracy. Small class sizes, native-speaking teachers, and a focus on engaging learning create an environment where students thrive academically while developing cultural competence. Students consistently score above national independent school norms on standardized assessments, and graduates are accepted into competitive high schools. Beyond academics, HWIS fosters critical thinking, adaptability, and empathy—skills essential in an interconnected world. Global Experiences As part of HWIS’s commitment to real-world language use and cultural immersion, students in grades 5–7 embarked on a 10-day study trip to China in March 2025, visiting Beijing, Luoyang, and Kaifeng. They attended partner schools, stayed with host families, and engaged in hands-on cultural experiences. “Watching our students confidently navigate conversations in Mandarin was incredibly rewarding,” said Principal David Heller. “Trips like this bring our mission to life.” In March 2026, HWIS is planning a student trip to the Monteverde Institute in Costa Rica, where Spanish immersion, sustainability, service learning, and culture come together in an impactful, adventure-filled experience. Upcoming Admissions Events Families are invited to explore HWIS’s programs and see immersion in action at upcoming Open Houses and Information Sessions this fall. Visitors can meet faculty, observe classes, and learn about new opportunities, including the Accelerated Bilingual Cohort for students beginning language study in upper elementary grades. Register here: https://hwis.org/events-nj/. About HudsonWay Immersion School HudsonWay Immersion School prepares students to excel academically and socially while becoming proficient in Mandarin or Spanish. With 20 years of proven success, HWIS continues to expand access through initiatives like new bus transportation from Millburn, Short Hills, Maplewood, and South Orange starting Fall 2025. Learn More Visit www.hwis.org to RSVP for an open house or contact us at info@hwis.org for admissions information. COMMENDS HudsonWay Immersion School Celebrates 20 Years of Bilingual Excellence CONNECTION 249 Bebout Ave., Stirling, NJ 908-598-8088 525 W. 52nd Street, New York, NY 212-787-8088 www.hwis.org HudsonWay Immersion School (HWIS)
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AUTUMN’S ALLURE EAT, DRINK & CELEBRATE PAGE 22 theconnectionsnj.com Friends of Bernards Township Library Presents the 4th Annual HOLIDAY MARKET Saturday, November 22nd 10:00 AM – 4:00 PM FREE ADMISSION Hand Crafted Jewelry Artisanal Soaps • Gluten Free Baked Goods Floral Art • Hand Woven Goods Lavender Fiber Art Crocheted Toys • Clairvoyant Café on Site Bernards Township Library 32 South Maple Avenue Basking Ridge, NJ 07920 Sports card store offering baseball, basketball, football, hockey, soccer, pokemon cards, memorabilia, hobby wax, single cards, retail and supplies. 257 N. Main Street, Manville, NJ 08835 908-842-2400 Open Monday-Saturday (11am-6pm) Receive 10% off when you spend $50 Visit Our NEW Location: he Friends of the Bernards Township Library, a non-profit organization which supports the library by providing funding for programs, events, and activities for all ages, has the community feel that people move here for. Just ask Vice President Lisa Fortunato, who has been involved for four years. “I became friends with the current President when I worked at the library, and she roped me in,” she laughed. “We began to talk about what they do, and I wanted to be able to help. I love being able to bring my experience working in fundraising and events to this community.” With events such as a live cabaret with songs performed from Wicked and Little Shop of Horrors to a Creature Comfort Pet Therapy program and a laser tag after dark (when the library is closed). There is truly something for all walks of life. The therapy dog event, held monthly, encourages children to read and not be afraid to read aloud. The therapy dog will sit next to them, and there is no judgment if they struggle to read aloud. There are also Storytime events, and when held in the evening, guests can attend in their pajamas. Adult programs range from music and art programs to comedy and old-time radio. For two years in a row, they held an afternoon tea fundraiser that was quite a hit. Picture a Victorian tea party with fine china, teacups, individual tea pots, handcrafted tea sandwiches and scones, while a string quartet played and waiters served you, courtesy of students at Ridge High School. “We hit full capacity with that event; we had 60 people,” says Fortunato, when remembering how much fun everyone who attended had. Next up is the planning of the annual Holiday Market, which is always held at the library the Saturday before Thanksgiving (November 22nd, from 10am-4pm). Lisa and the President go to different craft shows throughout the state, looking for vendors for the free event that is always open to the public. It ranges from artists that sell creative jewelry, artisanal soaps, hand-woven tea towels/blankets, paintings, lavender floral art pieces, gluten-free baked goods, crocheted toys, and mosaic lamps/globes. It will be on the lower level in the program room with plenty of parking. We will be including a café as well, selling baked goods, sandwiches, coffee, hot chocolate, and water. This is the fourth year of the Holiday Market, which provides a quality atmosphere with festive music playing, where one can get their shopping done and support local entrepreneurs. After living in Brooklyn for over thirty years, Fortunato came to Basking Ridge twelve years ago and really loves this community and the ease of life in the suburbs. “I love being able to find parking anywhere I go!” she remarked. The Friends of the Bernards Township Library donate their time and meet bi-monthly on the first Monday of the month for an hour and are always looking for volunteers to help provide the library with an even greater level of support. If you are interested in joining, please feel free to reach out at friends@bernardslibrary.org. Visit The Bernards The Bernards Township Library at 32 S. Maple Ave. Basking Ridge, NJ 07920. LIBRARY LOWDOWN You’ve Got a Friend in Bernards Township By Katrina Musto T
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AUTUMN’S ALLURE EAT, DRINK & CELEBRATE PAGE 24 theconnectionsnj.com just calculated, and the number seems outrageous. 605 crochet caps! When did I make them? How many hours did it take to make each one? How much time and effort did I put into planning the colors and patterns, checking out YouTube videos, and finally completing each one? The 605 caps have been crocheted, stitch by stitch, over the course of seven and a half years, averaging 80 caps a year. That’s 1.5 caps per week. Each cap takes about 3.5 hours, totaling over 2000 hours of crocheting, or an average of 5.25 hours per week! That is a lot of effort, but if I were to tell you what I got in return, and continue to get, you would see that it far outweighs what I put in. Knit Crochet with Love was started by some friends in one of their basements about 9 years ago. I joined the group 7.5 years ago. What started small now has various chapters. They not only provide much-needed chemo caps, but they have created a giving community! These caps are needed by hospitals around the country. It makes what I do necessary and gives me a sense of purpose. Knowing the comfort it brings a cancer patient, however fleeting it may be, makes me more compassionate. Imagining a smile when a patient first puts on a cap-soft, snug, and crocheted with love-I feel valued. Teaching others how to crochet, I feel connected. Passing on this handicraft to the next generation gives me a sense of continuity. Over the years, I met and connected with some lovely, caring, strong women who bonded across age, race, language, and culture over the simple, age-old craft of knitting and crochet. The group includes women in all phases of life. There are older women, now grandmothers, who have wisdom earned over the years that they want to contribute to make a difference. There are mothers who suddenly find themselves with an empty nest after a long time of caring for and nurturing children. There are working women looking to relieve stress, retired women looking to fill their time, and single women looking for community. Others join just to use the skill they learned as little girls. Some come because they have lost loved ones to cancer, and it is their way of grieving and healing. Their hands move, creating caps to provide an envelope of comfort, trying to fill the hole only grief can create. Some are still dealing with cancer in the family. Some are battling cancer themselves, and others are survivors. All with different reasons but a common purpose. Stitch by stitch, I have been able to keep my anxiety at bay. Each knot soothes my racing mind. The rhythmic movement of my hands keeps the part of my brain that wants to outrun my thoughts harnessed. Stitch by each repetitive stitch, I have found calm and felt more grounded. Sometimes I contemplate this fleeting life, and other times I am just happy to keep my fidgety hands moving. I recall the women who taught me how to crochet with gratitude, and I am thankful to have found another community of women miles away from where I learned how to crochet. I feel a sense of accomplishment with every finished cap. Hands moving, repetitive, rhythmic, creating - providing a balm to troubles both known and unknown, soothing both the creator and the wearer. That’s the story of my 605 caps for KCWL. Since I started this piece and finally got around to finishing it, I am at 607 caps and going strong. If knitting/crochet is something you want to learn or already know and want to engage with a diverse giving community, reach out and join: Website: knitcrochetwithlove.org or Email: knitcrochetwithlove@gmail.com. MISSION IN MOTION Six Hundred and Five for Knit Crochet with Love (KCWL) By Natasha Adiga I
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