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Starting in April our NEW Music Time at RMC 6 Week Toddler Music Program for Ages 2-4 2019 MEDEO SUMMER PROGRAM SCHEDULE 10 One-Week Fencing Day Camps from June 17 - August 30 9:30am-3:30pm Only $495/*445 per week / #8 Elite Epee Camp $600/*550 *Annual Member Discount GROUP & PRIVATE LESSONS IN EPEE, FOIL AND SABRE TOURNAMENTS BOUTING CLINICS SUMMER 2019 FENCING CAMPS Being at Medeo Summer Camp for one week is like fencing an additional 1/4 of a season! This is one of the best ways for fencers to keep improving their skills and move ahead competitively. It is also a great way to interact and fence with athletes from many different schools and programs. For FOIL & SABRE please call or email to find out which camps will have your weapon-specific coaches! BEGINNERS WELCOME! Daily Physical Conditioning, Footwork, Fencing Drills, Group Lessons, Bouting, & a Tournament and Ice Cream on Fridays Experts in All Three Weapons Excellent Coaching Service with World-Class Guest Coaches Scoring Machines Metallic Grounded Strips Fitness Machines Fencing Equipment Provided for Beginners #1 SN Preparation Camp June 17 - 21 #2 SN Preparation Camp June 24 - 28 #3 Fencing Camp July 8 - 12 #4 Fencing Camp July 15 - 19 #5 All Ages Fencing Camp July 22 - 26 #6 Fencing Camp July 29 - August 2 #7 International Fencing Camp August 6 - 10 #8 *Elite Epee Camp August 12 - 16 #9 Fencing Camp August 19 - 23 #10 New Season Prep. Camp August 26 - 30 Location Fully Air-Conditioned TRAIN WITH NATIONAL CHAMPIONS! 783 E. Main Street, Suite G, Bridgewater, NJ 08807 www.medeofencing.com e-mail: medeofencing@aol.com Phone: (732) 469-2244 Throughout their lives, children and adults will meet many different types of people. Some will be friends, many will be acquain- tances and there will always be the occa- sional individual, who because of jealousy or other reasons, seeks to do harm. How can your child recognize who is a good friend? A parent should not hesitate to dis- cuss this important topic with their child. Genuine friends should be trustworthy. Friendships should exhibit sincerity, hon- esty, respect and devotion. A test of good friends is their support and presence when a situation arises that they are needed. Friends should have common interests; be willing to share experiences and display similar values. They should know when to compromise and be flexible in their approach to situations. However, everybody will display some characteristics that may be annoying. It might be the pattern of speech or topic of conversation that are bothersome. If too many characteristics are annoying, then that individual might not be the right friend. So-called friends who always brag about their own accomplishments and show no interest in yours, who are only engrossed in their own doings; who have no sensitivity for your feelings; who constantly play the “one ups-man-ship” game when they know they are at an advantage, are not true friends. Another important factor in any relation- ship is the sensitivity toward each other. When discussing any topic, a good friend must consider the person to whom they are speaking, emailing or texting before they give a point of view. People should put themselves in their friends’ positions before making a statement that potentially, might be offensive. Settling disputes by documentation is not ideal. Correspondence, either through a letter, e-mail, text or any other form of writ- ing may imply something that you did not mean to say. A verbal statement can be explained as a misunderstanding, but a written statement can not be altered. Friendships require constant ongoing care and nurturing. Misunderstanding and spats are bound to arise and should be defused as quickly as possible. Don’t take any rela- tionship for granted. A good friendship is like a diamond and must be polished peri- odically to sparkle. On the other side of the coin, one meets an individual who is not your friend and takes advantage of you. Bullying, usually by an older and bigger individual, is not uncommon. A child should be instructed to seek out help whenever they are harassed, especial- ly if they are physically or mentally abused. A child must be encouraged to discuss these situations with their parents and not feel so frightened that they keep the inci- dent to themselves. This is especially impor- tant to anyone who is mentally or physical- ly abused. One should never be ashamed to seek the help or advice of a parent, a close relative or a person with authority, such as a teacher or principle. The above article, Friends and Foes, exam- ines children’s relationship with other peo- ple and is adapted from a chapter in the book, PREPARING CHILDREN FOR THE FUTURE. This book can be obtained with- out charge as an e-copy by a request on the email site, AskDrMel@yahoo.com. A hard copy can be obtained on Amazon.com. “Dr. Mel” is a Pediatrician who has always cham- pioned the needs of children and represents a non-profit corporation, Rewarding Life, Inc., whose mission is to instruct children how to avoid harm’s way. He is a graduate of Cornell- Weill Medical School and completed his profes- sional training as Pediatric Chief Resident at the New York Presbyterian Hospital. He is the author of medical and lay articles, the latter under the by-line, “ASK DR. MEL.” Rewarding Life Inc., a non-profit 501(c)(3) corporation supplies free teaching materials to schools, drug rehabilitation centers, correctional facilities and other non- profit organizations. Comments and queries should be addressed to AskDrMel@yahoo.com. FRIENDS AND FOES By: Melvin S. Rosh, MD, FAAP (Dr. Mel) PAGE 16 summer programs 2019